Archive | March 2016

1 Strategy Women Must Employ To Snag A Man

download (7)Have you ever heard a guy say “I don’t know what I want” when it comes to dating. Don’t get me wrong – men are largely confused about women and don’t really know what they want until they find that a girl is half decent to talk to and be around and there is sufficient chemistry to back that up.

You may have even been dating or crushing on a man who said he wasn’t ready for anything serious at the moment or better yet told you that he wanted a woman who was stable and didn’t play games. Basically he told you that he didn’t want to be with ‘a crazy’, only for you to discover some weeks or months later that he was in a relationship with a woman who was the opposite picture of what he described – manipulative, jealous, irrational and in your opinion no good for him.

See a man may not exactly know what he wants or has just not found her yet however don’t be the women who makes the fundamental mistake of listening to what he tells you he doesn’t want. You need to take the lead and ask the kind of questions that will you the answers you need to be the women that he wants and satiate his emotional needs.

That does not mean you should change yourself for a man. That will never work and you can only be the best version of yourself. What I am saying is a man will stay with a woman who fulfills his needs just like a woman will stick with a guy who fulfills her needs.

You need to ask a ‘potential partner in crime’ what he did like about certain flames of the past. Whether they were just flings, partners or they were dating these women for a time.

He may tell you that he liked a woman because she was strong or mature or she had a mind of her own. He may have liked a woman because they had amazing sexual chemistry or a great connection in the bedroom. He may say he liked certain women of the past because they understood him or because she was a bit of a mystery.

What ever he comes up with it, these are the words or snippets of information you should listen to. Be shrewd and get inside a man’s mind by asking the right questions.

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How to Persuade Men to Get What You Want

download (6)Do you wonder what attracts and keeps guys interested? You must figure out exactly what HE needs in order to capture and retain his interest.

Figuring out what guys like isn’t easy. Right?

Wouldn’t you love to know what men like when it comes to women?

Quite a bit, it turns out. Read on to find out more…


As you may well know men are visual creatures. They love to look at us. Sometimes they do it without even realizing they are doing it!

So the dots may connect if you have every caught a previous partner staring at another woman and then acting like he didn’t know what you were talking about when you did it.

Men are designed to hone into women’s bodies which is exactly why you must make sure you utilize all possible strategies to make him notice yours!

This doesn’t mean dressing provocatively or exposing a lot of skin but more rather wearing clothes that compliment your figure, taking care of your body and holding your body with confidence.

Using physical appeal at any stage of the relationship is a winner.


The truth is that men love a woman who plays hard to get.

He wants to work for the enjoyment of your company. A female who is

easy to get won’t really make him feel like a man.

Secondly, he wants a woman who is worth the effort. Make sure you are worth the chase. Make sure you flirt and follow through.


Men like to be in charge. They want to be rulers of their territory, kings at the throne, and creators of their destiny.

Like us women they want to make sure things always go their way.

This is a big reason why men bail on good relationships, even when they love the woman. They don’t want to compromise and lose their freedom. It is a really BIG deal!

You must give him time, because if he has enough space and freedom he WILL

change in time. He will want to take your thoughts and feelings and needs into consideration.

He won’t want to give up being in charge though, so no your limits and no that men are hard wired to take the lead. Some things will never change.

Make sure you have your own life and watch what he values. Even if what he values isn’t what you value and you don’t really understand where he is coming from. The small things can be a big deal. Move slowly and carefully if you want to give your relationship a fighting chance.

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Couples Commitment Ceremony

download (5)Marriage, they say, ‘Is an Institution’,

One that was created a very long time ago

for various reasons that made perfect sense to

those that were

Part of that old world view.


in most cultures, married women had very few rights of their own,

being considered, along with the family’s children,

the property of the husband

as such,

They could not own or inherit property,

or represent themselves legally.

Over time,

A lot of these ‘Non-Equanimeous’ perspectives have been Transcended…

Another big step up In the

Evolution of Human Developmental Stage Growth

is the Transcendence – From

Myth, Magic & Miracle Based Ethnocentric ‘religious’ views…

And moving up to the next stages:

Modern Rational

Post-Modern Rational

Pluralist (every one is equal)

To Finally…


Beginning the 2cd-Tier of Human Conscious Awareness

Of which about 5% are currently now operating at.

There are some very valid points to consider with stage growth,

You can’t skip stages…

At best you can accelerate your growing process…


for a lot of people,

They are stuck in a ‘traditional’ Spiritual rut.

The downside of ‘traditions’

is that

it keeps a lot of Progressive Higher Perspectives


Way back ‘when’…

No specific ritual was prescribed for celebrating a marriage:

“Marriage vows did not have to be exchanged in a church,

nor was a priest’s presence required.

A couple could exchange consent anywhere, anytime.”


Decrees on marriage of the Council of 1563

made the validity of marriage dependent upon

the wedding taking place before a priest and two witnesses


Establishing the Doctrine of

Bringing in the fear of God and the Dogmas of Church

into Love.


about 40% of Americans are currently drawn to this perspective…

Which seemed like the ‘thing to do’ 500 years ago,

Heck ‘

‘We’ had just started to figure out the Earth was Not indeed ‘Flat’


The ‘Theology’ of the times, mixed up with combining the power of the state

Gave a mighty strong Authoritative pressure to

Believe in the unbelievable

Have Un-rational ‘Faith’ in the Myth, Magic and Miracles

Required by Church & state

Before your True Love could be

‘Sanctioned’ in accordance to Church Doctrine

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A few hundred years ago,

the transcendence towards the next higher 3rd-person perspective emerged

~ The Modern ‘Rational’ ~

The capacity to take an

Objective, Scientific, Universal Perspective

and thus the switch in identity from a

Local Ethnocentric identity

to a universal or global world-centric identity occurs

A switch from “us”

to “all of us.”

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In the late 1960’s,

The emergence of… Postmodernism.

Where Traditional modernity introduced a 3rd-person perspective,

This new stage-known variously as:

pluralistic, postmodern, relativistic, sensitive, individualistic, multicultural

came with the emergence of

a 4th-person perspective

The capacity to

Reflect on, and criticize, 3rd-person perspectives,

including science,

Leading to a multitude of different or pluralistic views.

~ ~ ~ ~ ~

Only a few decades ago developmentalists began to notice

the emerging of the next

Highly Integrated Level.


Begins the 2cd-Tier of Human Conscious Awareness

~ ~ ~ ~ ~

Abraham Maslow had called

1st tier – “deficiency needs”

and 2nd tier – “Being needs”

The 1st tier levels are

Partial, narrow, excluding, separative, and driven by deficiencies

2nd-tier levels are

Inclusive, embracing, comprehensive, integral, and driven by abundance

Only around 5% of the worldwide population

is at integral levels of development.

The Inspirations of creative wholeness tend to trend things upward towards


Embrace and more integration of many perspectives…

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To ones that have transcended Ethnocentric religious perspectives of

only accepting and unconditionally loving those within their group of followers

Those at Higher developmental growth stages

can no longer ‘resonate’ with constraints of Lower stage perspectives

But yet

Still feel Inspired to Express their Love to a Higher Source

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

This is a Non legal and Non Binding Marriage of True Love that recognizes the Eternal Being in each other

A Union of Soul Mates

Not a pesky Bureaucratic Formality

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Those on

The emerging second tier of Human Developmental Growth

are on the cusp of

Personal Awakening.

They have grown as far as the leading edge of society

and now are Naturally inclined towards a Spiritual-ness…

A key aspect of Spirituality is the ability to

‘Be’ in the moment.

In ‘this’ moment, a life together is fulfilling

Later down the Road of Life…

The ever present moment may bring uncharted directions to pursue

for Inspirations we can’t see currently.

To Limit one’s self with the huge burdens legally required to buy yourself out of

a legally binding commitment

Seems quite the unnecessary expense of wasted time and money

If the heart is just not in it anymore

There should be a natural conclusion to move on…

Not a new car’s worth of Lawyer fees and court costs.

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And Oh Yea…

No One Is Going To Hell

for Not accepting Myth, Magic or Miracle based Doctrine of a Church wedding


for being among the 41% of first time marriages that end with Lawyers

The societal trend is towards more couples choosing the path of

A Commitment Ceremony

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